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Postby Muppet » 30 Oct 2016 14:38

Ask.
It's that simple.
You may not like the response or it may surprise you.
The thing is, the more you over think it, the worse YOU make it for yourself.
It's perfectly normal to not like someone and them not like you.
Just get it over with so you can at least work out a way to process it.
Don't EVER be scared of what some one may say to you or about you.
They only matter if you allow them to matter.
Shit, the sooner you realise people just don't matter unless you want them to, the happier you will be.

I would be honest with your friend too.

How am i feeling?
Weak.
I won't be around much, even emails and such.
Just can't focus or do much.
So i'm not ignoring anyone, i'm just taking the time i need.
However long that is.
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Postby Muppet » 01 Nov 2016 09:00

Muppet wrote:Shit, the sooner you realise people just don't matter unless you want them to, the happier you will be.

Gosh, that sounded a bit harsh but it wasn't meant to be, at all.
:lol: :hug

I only meant, that in the grand scheme of life, of all the people you will meet, there will be only 10-20 people that will TRULY matter out of the thousands you will meet. Sure, everyone brings something to your life when they enter it for however large or small their part is to play but there is only so many that will impact you to the point of meaning so very much to you that you should worry about it. This friend of a friend that is being a shit, is not one of those people. And neither is your friend if they make a huge issue out of it and decide to cut you out of their life simply for talking rationally to them about why his friend is being a shit or if he knows why his friend may not like you.
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My question to you is, why would you want to be friends with someone that is being an asshole to you?
:(

How am i?
A little bored and restless.
Sleepy too.
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Postby Jarhara » 03 Nov 2016 17:19

Muppet wrote:My question to you is, why would you want to be friends with someone that is being an asshole to you?
:(


the problem is, that lately i am the one being the asshole. he used to be, but now that he isn't i somehow think that i should take the chance to "take revenge"... but now i feel bad for my childish behavior.. why am i even doing this??

i would like to be friends with him but i don't need to

but all of this is the least of my problems now...
my Mum has been sick for two weeks and the doctors can't find whats wrong.
and to make things even worse,.. i was in a car accident on halloween (it happend close to Castel Frankenstein, no kidding)


so, how do i feel today??
well, for the last few days, i could have picked almoste any song from "the Wicked-Trilogy" to discribe who i feel... but today there was some relife...i have found a new car and my mum has been a great help (despite not feeling to well) And we had another team meeting at work and our boss said a lot of good things and now everyone seems to have relaxed (at least a bit)...
so to summ it up:
i am starding to see a light, again
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Postby Muppet » 06 Nov 2016 11:16

Jarhara wrote:why am i even doing this??

Just answered your own thoughts.
Stop being an asshole and put that energy into things that make you happy.
In my experience, the best revenge is to be kind, be happy and live well.
:wink:

I hope your mum is feeling much better ASAP.
I don't know how mum's do it but they always find the extra strength to be there for us when we need them. Even if they are feeling poorly. LOVE MUMS!!! Love you found a new car already too!
<3 :woohoo:

Which reminds me of my dream last night... I had a little baby girl that was born with a pitch black Mohawk!
Seriously, WTF?
:lol:

Glad to see, it seems you, aren't hurt in the accident.
Also glad your work seems to have settled.
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How am i doing?
Bleh!!!!!!!!!
A sort of bad week followed by a horrid weekend.
Next question..?
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Postby Jarhara » 08 Nov 2016 16:07

Muppet wrote:Also glad your work seems to have settled.


i wish it would have... but it seems that was only for a few days... tension is rising again..

ther is this group of 3 people and they keep complainig about everything and talk shit about everyone who is not listening... it's horrible
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Postby Muppet » 08 Nov 2016 22:44

Bah, it's shitty behaviour and needs to be stamped out.
There is always a bunch of unhappy twits ruining everything for everyone else and trying to drag everyone down!
And it is always so petty.
Honestly, if they dislike their work so much, change their job.
Maybe someone should say that to them.
If they don't like where they are, change it but don't ruin it for everyone else.

Ok Jarhara, i have let everyone else know on my Facebook that i won't be around until after Christmas.
Not just on here, but on pretty much everywhere.
But if you want and have it, add me on Facebook.
I'll pm you a link. I'll check in there at least once a week so if you need to vent, i'm there.


How am i doing?
TERRIBLE!
Hence the reason for me being absent until after Christmas.
If i want any chance of enjoying Christmas with my family, i need to hit rehab hard and that means no PC time or any other distractions.

So take care all and MMWWWAAAA!!!
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Postby Thierry » 23 Jan 2017 00:02

:hug for when you'll read it :)

I feel... back?

Took some time to read and write here, that hadn't happened in ages, and I missed it. My new life with the baby is definitely drifting me away from my old hobbies, but I'll slowly try to catch up on a few things.

How do I feel? Good. :) Things are doing well for us, especially for the baby. She's adorable, always smiling. This sounds like a cliché, but she definitely is our sunshine. <3
Schoolwork is alright. Nothing great, but nothing bad either. We're slowly planning on a new 3-day schooltrip in May. Should be fun :)

Hope everybody's fine, Lara, have your stomach problems found an answer?
Maybe it's better for you, mankind, not to know what's going on!

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Postby Larissa » 26 Jan 2017 15:00

Hey Thierry!

Great to hear from you :hug .
I am very happy your little girl is doing fine and everything is well at home :) .
No surprise she turned your life upside down and made a lot of other things seem less important.

I haven't been around the forum for quite some time, too.
Real life kept me busy on all accounts.
Mostly in a good way, so I have no reason to complain.

My stomach problems are slowly disappearing. Very slowly.
To keep a long story short, it was an inflammation of the stomach lining that persisted for months.
Now that it's over, I am patiently working my way back to normal.
Some days are good, others are bad, always depending on my dicipline about what I eat and how much.
But things are improving and that's important :) .

So today I feel fine.
Looking forward to the weekend, because this week has been quite a challenge work-wise.
Speramus Meliora; Resurget Cineribus

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Postby Thierry » 10 Jan 2018 23:56

I feel like your answer is a year old, Lara!

Happy 2018 to all the wandering souls remaining in here! :)

It's all the same in here: life keeps me away from the forums, from hobbies in general. But it's gone way too far in 2017 and we've decided to try to get our life in our hands, trying to live, actually. We spend most of our free time (meaning when Eléa is asleep) preparing for school and house-cleaning, that's not possible anymore.
I've been to the movies today, am trying to play videogames a little bit more (Zelda on 2DS helps :P ) and am working on a CD-review, whereas I only wrote one in 2017.

BRING IT ON, 2018!!!
Maybe it's better for you, mankind, not to know what's going on!

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Postby Master of Babylon » 25 Jan 2018 01:43

happy 2018, kids. can't believe this still exists.
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Postby Thierry » 26 Jan 2018 16:55

Hey!!! Hello you! 8)
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Postby Master of Babylon » 30 Jan 2018 00:06

hellooooooooo...
feels like screaming into empty space here. :T
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Postby Muppet » 09 Feb 2018 10:31

:o

Is there an echo?

*cups hands to her mouth and screams*
HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO?
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Postby Jarhara » 09 Feb 2018 16:21

I think I can hear the echo...^^

no, honestly... i just don't feel comfortable to come here to whine and get all sentimental...
I've already did this more then once but i just think i should better take care of my life on my own without bothering others
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Postby Muppet » 10 Feb 2018 08:35

:lol:

Well, if you change your mind, you know where to let it out.
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Postby Thierry » 14 Feb 2018 14:59

And you'll find (delayed, sometimes) ears to receive your "whining" ;)

I was once a professional whiner in here! :lol:
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